Sunday, October 26, 2014

Bridezilla Solutions For Perfect Destination Weddings

By Young Lindsay


The history of the wedding celebration has spanned five thousand years. From wedding bands in 2,800 BC to diamond proposal rings in 1477 AD to the white wedding dress in 1499, more and more customizations to the nuptial ceremony has emerged. Saying I do is not as simple as making vows under a moonlit tree anymore.

Couples have been saying goodbye to the good old church wedding in recent years. In lieu of the classic method, the engaged have embraced destination weddings Mexico, searching for exotic locales to tie the knot, from sunny islands and to the icy Alberta, Canada. Because destination weddings are certainly more tedious, here are some useful tips you can use so that you do not need to be part of the very real bridezilla phenomenon.

Pick the perfect spot by choosing a place that embodies the personalities of you and your partner, or somewhere you have been dreaming to visit someday. It could be some rugged cliff for adventurous couples, underwater, or wherever, as long as you have considered the travel time and the costs. Make sure that it would not be too difficult for your guests and family as well, and check for great flight connections, affordable accommodations within the locale of your destination, and reliable transfer companies.

Make lots of time for planning. If the usual duration is one and a half year, book your reservation two years in advance. Consider sending your save the date cards as early as possible so that your working comrades can file their leave for your big day.

Get a wedding planner to take care of the logistics of your ceremony. Do not try hogging the whole work, you could possibly explode into the stereotypical bridezilla. Learn to say no to vendors who will not stop being so insistent on things that are out of your budget. And never forget to include your groom in the grand scheming. If you are going to be partners in life, you better start it now.

Know what kind of climate your wedding venue has, and be prepared if it is very hot or very cold. Do not torture your bridesmaids and groomsmen with clothing that is inappropriate for the temperature of the venue. Pick costumes that will suit the weather, because during weddings, you do not go with fashion over comfort if you want everyone, including yourself, to have a good time.

Keep calm by raking in a little downtime. Do not make your fairytale fantasies become some sort of apocalyptic emergency, because that would make you a very ugly, stressed bride. Instead, announce a recess and have some romantic alone time with your fiance. It would refresh and revitalize you and keep the eye bags at bay.

Know the laws of the land you are tying the knot in, especially if it is abroad. There are places wherein you will need to be resident of two years before you get to wed in that location, so call the family lawyer and see what you can do. Do not forget that the point is that you are married at the end of the day.

Lastly, look after your posse. Keep in mind that they also underwent lots of effort and expenses to be with you and to help you on the day you say I do. Be thoughtful when it comes to their needs and be sure that they are comfy and cozy upon arrival at the venue.




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